- What are the important factors to consider when deciding to start a family and how does it impact a marriage?
Islamically! The first thing you need to consider before starting a family is to choose a right mother/father to your child, by the suggestion of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu alaihi Wasallama to us. Because choosing a partner is the first foundation for building a family.
Secondly is to sit an answer these set of questions effectively:
1. Emotional readiness: Are you and your partner ready to become parents?
2. Financial stability: Can you afford to raise a child?
3. Relationship stability: Is your relationship with your partner strong and stable?
4. Age and health: Are you at a healthy age to conceive and carry a pregnancy?
5. Lifestyle: Are you willing and able to make changes to your lifestyle to accommodate a child?
6. Support system: Do you have a supportive family and friends to help with childcare?
7. Personal goals: Have you achieved your personal goals, such as education and career establishment?
8. Values and beliefs: Are you and your partner aligned on values and beliefs regarding parenting?
9. Readiness for responsibility: Are you prepared to take on the responsibilities of parenthood?
10. Communication: Have you and your partner discussed and agreed on having a child?
11. Parenting style: Have you considered your parenting style and values?
12. Family dynamics: How will a child fit into your existing family dynamics?
13. Work-life balance: How will you balance work and family responsibilities?
14. Education and upbringing: What values and education will you provide for your child?
15. Financial planning: Have you planned for the financial responsibilities of raising a child?
Considering these factors will help you make an informed decision about starting a family.